So we finally had our conference call with the birth mom today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It was crazy! I mean we were supposed to have it a week ago, so there was a little build up of anticipation, but at the same time, it made it easier because so much time had passed...The agency had told us that the birth mom wanted a semi-open adoption so we went into the call talking that way, and thinking that way...But come to find out, she wants it completely closed. So that was a surprise. We are totally fine with that. We told her that we would keep everything current at that agency in case she ever changed her mind. I think she made up her mind, and is just ready to try to move on.
So I felt a little sad about it, but I'm trusting God. And like my wise sister in law said...there was a reason that we thought one way about it going in to the call...because we acted differently than we might of had we thought the other way. So God knows.
As it stands we leave Monday, have dinner with her Monday night, and have a baby Tuesday! WOW
Woohoo!!! :)
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