Tuesday, March 10, 2015

Who Moves to Maui?

          Well this is weird!  I never imagined that this was in my future, and now present life.  Who moves to Maui?

          I really wanted to have this blog post include every little miracle that has brought us to this point.  I have journaled all along the way, which means I would need to reread and copy it all down to be able to share it with you.  In light of time, we are just going to have to see what spills onto the page.

          Where do I begin!?  I guess we begin a little over two years ago when the whole family, meaning Grammy and Grandpy, cousins, and siblings, saved up and took a family vacation to Maui over Christmas.  As the trip came near, we started talking about taking Malakai off his meds and 'testing' how he would do there.  We got the idea from Josh's Grandpa, his mom's dad, who suffered here in the Northwest with bad asthma and heard he might do well in Hawaii.  He, Josh's G'pa, went and tested it, and it turned out he was totally well and felt great there.  Then moved his family over, and Josh's mom lived there for 9 years growing up.  

          Here in Idaho Malakai was at the point of needing to be on Prednisone way more than we were comfortable with.   He needs daily inhaled steroids always, and sometimes extra inhalants on top of that, and then with that still ends up on Prednisone, and sometimes oxygen.  We have used the natural and medical approach.  Josh has run labs where we discovered his severe food and environmental allergies which trigger things, along with cold and dry air.  So Kai doesn't just have a bad season here, it is always.  (Side note:  We use the natural therapies in conjunction with his meds.  We know it will do him well to have a healed 'gut', his nutrition imbalances corrected, and we do allergy therapy as well.  I'm not listing everything here that we do, but I know people are curious and helpful.) 

           Back to heading to Maui in December 2012....So I was totally scared to take Kai off his meds because it was always a recipe for disaster.  We had done it at different times while testing different types of therapies.  But we prayed and asked God to show us if this was something that would help Kai, and if it was something he had for our family. So by faith we gave Kai his last treatment before we left, and off we flew.  The longer we were there, all together 2.5 weeks, the better Kai got.  Miraculously better!  Everyone in the family was amazed.  Matter of fact, when we were leaving I was devastated, I begged Josh to let us stay.  I know it's completely illogical, but I was dead serious.  I was like I don't need to go home and sell anything, like I'm ready to just buy a tent, and start over.  When you have seen your child so sick and you find something, or in this case somewhere, he can be well, the mommy heart says yes no matter the cost.  Yes, I know it is paradise, but even though it is paradise, moving there is no easy thing to do!  And that is not a complaint, it is simply true.  (Side note:  We were home from that trip for about 4 days and Kai was on oxygen.  I think that was the first time our house went up for sale.)

             So in the last two years we have put our house for sale about 3 times I think.  I lost track!:)  We would put it for sale and then Josh would go take the sign down.  We sold my favorite car, and I'm glad, but in the name of moving and then he took the sign down.  lol  This is why no one truly believes we are going.  It has been a roller coaster!  

              I think it ultimately boils down to God opening the door, the right time, and much preparation.  I'm thankful for each of those things, and God has been continually guiding us and giving us those sweet encouragements at just the right moments to keep us pushing forward.  And here we are!  At last!

            So many things, and many more that I'm not writing.  All I can say is that I'm thankful God is not far but near.  I'm thankful He answers our prayers and all who call on Him.  I'm thankful he cares for us down to the smallest detail.  I'm thankful that we get to walk by faith on great adventures, and His plans for us are good.  I'm thankful that His dreams for our family are bigger than our own.  I'm thankful to be married to someone who is always willing to follow God no matter what, and that is the reason I never worry.  I know if God shows Josh what He wants, Josh will say yes no matter how difficult.

               And seriously hats off to my amazing husband.  He is always learning, always willing to change, always generous, always following God, and always SO much fun to do life with.  Through school, moving, adoption, opening businesses, more adoptions, foster care, and now moving away from everything even some of his own dreams of running a business with his dad, and cousins growing up together, Josh follows where God leads and I'm so thankful for him.

Saturday, February 21, 2015

Aaliyah Home 1 Year and 9 Months

Never could you have told me what would unfold in the last one and three quarters of a year.  Some of the greatest blessings and victories, and some of the hardest things we have ever faced as a family.  Our testimony stands to say that God is who He says He is, He is true to His Word, and His promises are true and very real.  
Aaliyah is a delight!  She is so joyful and sweet.  She has come from a very hard place with many hurdles to overcome.  Older child adoption for us has been different from infant adoption.  All three of our adoptions 'felt' different, and I guess the circumstance in each one was different.  I would say the infant adoption was a quicker attachment process for us and the older child adoption was a slower attachment.  Looking back at this point I can surely say that the Lord has knit us all together and it is really fun to look back and see the progress made.  One of the promises of faith we have seen played out is that no matter how you feel, if you choose love, God will grow that love.  
        I know the blog is sometimes the place to divulge all sorts of detail, but in this circumstance the details were a train wreck for me, but they are not my story to tell right now.  Something happened in our family that I thought was one of my worst nightmares.  The crazy thing is that God used it to show me that there is no such thing as a worst nightmare because He was holding all of us in the palm of His hand.  We never fell, no one was permanently injured, and evil meant to bring harm and tear a family apart, but the Lord used it to knit us together, and bring healing in ALL of our lives, not just Aaliyah's!  Now I call that a victory, not a nightmare.
          There has been a lot of sacrifice, work, love, and forgiveness poured out all over this beautiful mess by every one involved near and far.  I have done the ugly, full on sobbing snotty cry more than once, but we have also laughed until we cried over hysterical things this little girl from Louisiana brought to Idaho. But I stand here today to tell you I have a daughter!  A beautiful, lovely, dark, tall, shining daughter that WE all love and adore.  God is so good!  It is so much fun to have a daughter.  Something I knew nothing about until 1 year and 9 months ago:)  It is different than I imagined, especially since she was almost as tall as me and she was FIVE.  But I have cuddled, tickled and rocked her like she was and is my little baby.  I promise it is a hysterical sight to behold, but it is needed and wanted.  Oh my:)  I do believe the Lord has a sense of humor!
So I'm going to leave it at that for now.